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Memorial Gifts

What you can offer the bereaved

It can be incredibly difficult to know how to help a friend or loved one who is dealing with death and the funeral process - you want to express sympathy and support but you might not know exactly what to say. This may be a proper occasion for a memorial gift, as they are a simple and proper way of expressing your feelings. You don't have to experience death or loss in order to support a friend who has. When you acknowledge their grief with a gift, you often say more than you could with words.

In North America , the most common memorial gift is flowers. Flowers can make the perfect gift for the bereaved - they're beautiful and fragrant, and they let loved ones know that they have support.

Those Left Behind

The traditions and ceremonies associated with death are meant to help those left behind, undergoing the grieving process. A thoughtful memorial gift can offer sympathy and support as they work through this difficult time.

When you're selecting a memorial gift you have to keep in mind the person you're getting it for. You'll want to ask yourself:

  1. Who have they lost?

  2. How close were they to the deceased?

  3. How old are they?

  4. How will the loss affect their everyday life?

After you've considered these aspects you'll be able to select a gift that best addresses the needs and feelings of the bereaved, while also expressing your sentiments. For example, you'll pick a different memorial gift for someone who has lost a parent, spouse or child than someone who has lost a distant acquaintance. You'll also have to consider the age bracket of the bereaved because some of the gifts available for adults won't be appropriate for a child.

Types of Gifts

You can select from a number of different items when you're looking for a memorial gift. There are a lot of different traditional routes you can follow, such as:

  1. Flowers: different kinds of flowers have certain meanings, and you can choose the appropriate representation

  2. Rosemary: this evergreen symbolizes remembrance

  3. Angels: religious or secular, angels symbolize love, security and the resilience of the spirit

Depending on the person you're buying for, these traditional options may not convey the message you would like. You might instead opt for a personalized or homemade memorial gift. You may also select a practical gift that will help the bereaved get through the first few weeks or months following a loss; or perhaps a unique or unusual memorial gift that will help lift their spirits or remind them of the deceased.

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